Monday, July 28, 2008

Miss nobody says..

hmm...she has a bad feeling about this..she questioned it..once..yes, deep down she was 'terasa'..she felt really out of place..the 'friend' was invited..the 'going-to-be' wasnt..perhaps because she was an eyesore..yea, she said she was sorry that she wasnt blessed with good looks..

she just looked from afar..pretended she didnt notice..she wished she hadnt..

but who is she to say anything about it..not even a word..is it a sign for wuts coming her way?

...

Tuesday, July 15, 2008

sang hati: wahai sang bayu..kau hembuskanlah ke dalam hatinya..bisikan padanya bahawa aku terlalu mencintainya..




sang bayu: wahai sang hati..aku boleh membawamu kepadanya..




sang hati: tidak mengapa sang bayu..diri ini tidak layak berada di sisinya..apatah lagi untuk memilikinya..biarlah sekadar bisikan rindu menjadi penawar..

Monday, July 14, 2008

tick tock tick tock..

I just realized something a few hours ago..well a couple of things actually.As of today..it has been 6 months and 15 days since i was officially crowned as Ms Fiancee (haha)..how time flies in a jiffy!We dont really count every single day or month of anniversary or whatever..so it came as a surprise to me la..like HUH??so fast aa??

And a minute later it hit me hard..another 4 months away(minus the fasting month of course) from having the title 'Mrs'..aiyooo..patut la jerawat pemanis muka pun dah start beranak pinak..yes i am stressed out!I dont even have the 'wedding file' opened yet!lalalalala~

any recommendations?anyone?


pretty?

Saturday, July 5, 2008

10 things I...

10 Traits of a GREAT Boyfriend/Husband

Number 10

You listen


When words come out of her mouth, do you actually pay attention to what is being said, or does your brain just process mumbling sounds while you stare at her chest? A good boyfriend is an active listener, meaning he asks questions and doesn't just sit there, waiting for his turn to speak.

Showing her that you have a genuine interest in what she has to say means, among other things, that you respect her opinions and find her interesting; two things that will meet any woman's criteria.


Number 9


A great relationship is one that never feels stale. So to avoid having your flames of desire burn out, you have to be unpredictable and mysterious in order to keep her guessing (and on her toes).

Whether you whisk her away to a Mexican resort at the last minute or show up, for no apparent reason, spontaneity can add some real excitement to the romance, and intrigue her all the more. Women love to be swept away in as many different ways as possible; it's up to you to come up with as many ideas as you can.

Number 8


Saying that sex is important would be a gross understatement. A good boyfriend must satisfy his woman's every romantic need (and yes, she should reciprocate). There's a difference between making love just for the sake of it, and being passionate about it. That means never skipping foreplay, sending her soothing messages during the act (Note: it's okay to ask her, point-blank, what she likes), and not falling asleep the minute you're done.

Number 7


She may feel more empowered by it in the beginning, but in the long run, no woman wants a passive, submissive man who completely compromises his personality to make her happy. Retain your personality, stand by your opinions, and don't give in too easily. Show her that you are strong, confident, and have a spine.

Number 6


Did she suddenly get highlights in her hair, shed a few pounds, or buy a new dress? These are all things you need to take note of; most women instinctively flock to guys with keen eyes. It shows that you are attentive and don't skim over life's more subtle details.

Number 5

You give her space

Trust is the foundation of any good relationship. Part of that entails giving her the freedom to have a life separate from yours without asking 20 questions or having jealous fits, and knowing that she's not taking your trust for granted. Keep things in perspective; would you like a girlfriend who kept tabs on every move you made? Probably not, and the same goes for her. And always look for a silver lining; in this case, you'll have time to hang out with your buddies, and have something to talk to her about the next time you see her.



Number 4

You respect her (and her family)

It's important to avoid letting your ego get the best of you, so if your mentality is stuck in the '50s, you must adjust to changing times. You have to understand that she's an equal part of the relationship, so appreciate her company. Likewise, try to embrace her family early on. In addition to scoring precious points, being kind and courteous toward her parents is a good way to show that you're serious about the relationship. This includes, but is not limited to, bringing the parents thoughtful little gifts every so often, and planning activities that include her whole family, like a picnic. Of course, I'm assuming that you've already survived that dreadful first meeting.



Number 3

You better yourself

Demonstrating what a positive effect your woman has had on you is a fantastic way of gaining leverage. Whether you're getting yourself back into shape, improving your vocabulary, or forgetting about the television long enough to take dance lessons with her, it doesn't matter. Improving yourself is a great way of letting her know she deserves the best, and she'll be flattered that she was the inspiration behind your desire to aim higher.



Number 2

You challenge her to be better

Likewise, your role in her life should be just as beneficial. You should inspire her to make changes that reflect the positive effect you've had on her. If, for example, you see her letting a great talent go to waste, encourage her; maybe that's all she needs. Don't be afraid to sign her up for an art class, or push her to pursue a career you know she'd be good at. The fact that you care that much about her well-being will make her want to keep you around longer.

Number 1



You make her feel beautiful

Reminding her how beautiful she is comes with making her feel good, and makes you a poster boyfriend. Best of all: simplicity and honesty are all you need. Buy her, say, a card that expresses your appreciation, compliment her at odd times, and if you feel that she's the most gorgeous creature you've ever laid eyes on, be sure to let her know. Women want to look good for their men, and proving to her that you only have eyes for her will be a validation of that.



These are important to us women..as for me..what more can i say..i am truly blessed.
Thank you...

Wednesday, July 2, 2008

gOnE

kecewanya..

takda semangat nak melalui minggu ni

there's nothing to look forward to

not anymore..

Tuesday, July 1, 2008